Realize Your Unimportance
You may find this tip very different and unusual. Mostly, we are busy in showing off our importance and not realizing that our role is already over and we are not required anymore to take decisions on their behalf. Without realizing this fact we keep poking our nose in the matters where our importance has already finished or it was never there as we were thinking.
For example, a daughter after marriage interfering in her parent’s home; a mother expecting from her son that he will give as much time as he was giving before marriage; a boss wanting to influence ex-subordinates after he has been transferred to a different department or organization.
5 Tips to realize Unimportance :
1.Be emotionally intelligent.
2.When other persons are not giving you any importance, understand they are independent enough to handle the situation.
3.One needs to be conscious and alert when communicating with others to get signals of irritation & coldness.
4.Continuously analyse your role.
5.Advise only when asked for.
दोहा by अविनाश बागड़े
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