Never Be Sarcastic
Sarcasm is a sharp, bitter, or cutting expression or remark. Many people have a habit of being sarcastic in dealing with people. As long as it is used as humor, it may be appreciated but when it is used towards family, friend and acquaintance then it is not a good habit.
Cartoonist, poets and media use sarcasm mainly towards politicians or celebrities very widely but mostly it is to pass on the message in a humorous way. People enjoy it and though it may be embarrassing for a person towards whom it is intended but the best way to deal with it is to ignore it. However, in one to one conversations, group discussions and meetings, it should be totally avoided.
It creates humiliation and bitterness. Person to whom it is targeted, may ignore it at that particular time but it is never forgotten and carries a negative impression for a long time. If seniors are sarcastic, it will put off the juniors and their moral & motivation will go down.
5 Tips to avoid and deal sarcastic attitude :
1.Be straightforward.
2.If sarcasm is used as a humor, make sure it is not targeted to demean the other party.
3.Best way to deal with sarcastic remark is to ignore it.
4.If a person is continuously sarcastic, firmly resist it.
5.Avoid the company of habitual sarcastic people.
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