Character Build Trustworthiness
If someone says ‘I Trust You’ then it’s a bigger compliment than ‘I Love You’. Gaining trust of anyone is harder than gaining love. When you trust someone you surrender yourself. You will be confident that he/she will always be available for you. Also, you will be sure that he/she will not take you for granted.
Now, question is why we trust someone or why someone will trust us. The first and foremost quality needed to develop trust is by bringing honesty in our behavior. Our thoughts, words and actions must be aligned for someone to trust us. People are very smart in finding out contradictions in our thoughts and actions. It takes years to build it but it takes few seconds for trust to shatter.
Trust is considered as a base for building strong relationship. Whether it is a case of a family or work, trust is needed to have strong bonding. Apart from honesty, other character traits also play vital role in developing trust such as integrity, fairness, thoughtfulness, humbleness, kindness and sincerity. Even the trust worthy person can have some personality flaws but if people trust him/her, they would overlook those flaws.
5 Tips to develop Trust.
1. Develop honesty in your behavior.
2. Overcome character flaws.
3. Trust people to gain trust in return.
4. Be emotionally intelligent.
5. Align your thoughts, words and actions
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