Change or Accept
There are three categories of circumstances or situations. First category is where situation is under our control. The complete control of circumstances is in our hands as we have got full influence on that. Every one has got full control on his mind, body, heart and soul. Though very few control it because most of us have a tendency to give control of our mind and body in the hand of others.
Second category of situation or circumstances is when we can’t control the situation, which is affecting us. This type of situation arises mostly in our family, work, society, city or in our country. We might be affected positively or negatively by that situation but actually we have little or no influence on that. For example, if your boss gives promotion to your colleague or competitor, you feel sad but practically can’t change his/her decision except to keep performing as best as you can.
Third category of situation is when, neither the event is in your control nor it has direct or indirect effect on you. Such as, some one is elected as a prime minister in Argentina. In situations second & third, it is better to accept things.
5 Tips for Change or Accept:
1. Identify the situation and decide whether to accept or change.
2. Make continuous efforts to enlarge your circle ofinfluence.
3. Make continuous efforts for improving things under your control.
4. Make sure change is as painless as possible for you and others.
5. Use creativity and innovation for bringing change.
दोहा by अविनाश बागड़े
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