Ultimately Truth Wins
Truth is a debit card, pay first and enjoy later. Lie is a credit card, enjoy first and pay later. Truth may be painful initially but lie will have deeper wounds and will hurt you life long. Truth may be bitter initially but it will cure all problems and on the other hand lie will taste sweeter but will be harmful forever.
Lie may win initially but ultimately truth wins. A lie will add to your troubles, subtract your energy, multiply your difficulties and divide your joy whereas a truth will add to your happiness, subtract your troubles, multiply your joy and divide your problems. Sometimes it may look that a small lie can save your relationship but no matter howsoever small a lie is, it will steal your peace peace of mind and happiness.
And when lie gets detected, it hurts much deeper. When the situation is that the truth can hurt, plan your words carefully so that shock is not sudden and wounds are not deep.
5 Tips for telling Truth :
1.Select right time, right words and right situation before telling a truth.
2.If you do not have courage to tell the truth, maintain silence rather than covering up with lies.
3.Do not mix emotions with truth. It will get distorted.
4.It may be harmful in short term but in long term it will be more effective.
5.Truth may be subjective so listen carefully to others also.
दोहा by अविनाश बागड़े
सच को ख़ारिज ना करें , नहीं पालना खोट।
सूरज तो छिपता नहीं ,ले बादल की ओट।।