Honestly Be Polite
I am always cautious of people who are extremely sweet. People wear so many masks; it becomes difficult to judge their intentions particularly when you are not fully acquainted with them. Politeness is important for creating, developing and maintaining relationships. However if you are slightly dishonest in your politeness, people will find it out and will not trust you. Dishonesty in politeness means you have some other motto in your mind which is in contrast with your words. It means your speech and actions are not synchronised.
There are people who are honest in heart but do not know how to be polite. Such people face difficulty in connecting with others. For politeness best instrument is smile. Though it is such a simple expression but some people fail to bring it on face. Polite people normally rehearse the words and reframe before they shoot them out. Initially cautious efforts are required however continuous practice makes one perfect.
5 Tips for becoming Polite :
1.Think before expressing.
2.Wear a true smile.
3.Every day meditation can help in controlling emotions.
4.Select your words cautiously.
5.Drop your ego.
दोहा by अविनाश बागड़े
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