Ask For It
How to get whatever you want? The first and most effective method is to “ASK FOR IT”. As a child, the very first thing we learn is “To Ask” but as we grow up, we feel shy in asking. Likewise, in personal and professional life, everyday we want to achieve something, which is not possible without taking help of others. If we feel inferior and shy, then it might hamper our growth.
In life we pass through three different stages i.e. Dependent, Independent and Interdependent. As a child or in the initial stage of anything, we are dependent and normally do not hesitate to ask but as we grow in our role we feel independent and that’s the point where our ego starts building up. Principally, it’s our ego which stops us from asking others. Finally we realise that there is contribution of lot of people for our success and interdependence is must and taking help of others is necessary in life.
5 Tips How to Ask without shying.
1. Always be ready to help others. Actually, helping others takes away guilt feeling and eases us in asking for help whenever required.
2. Ask without hesitation. Normally people feel strong and elevated when someone asks them for help.
3. Ask only when you genuinely need help.
4. Asking for financial help shall be avoided unless you are having trust on that person.
5. Ask for help from those who are capable of helping.
दोहा by अविनाश बागड़े
खुलकर हरदम पूछ लें ,पग-पग प्रश्न हजार।
भूले सा ना बीच में , रखे अहं दीवार।।