To find fault with

To hold responsible

To complain

Be proactive. You can always find the reason for failure within yourself. That will guarantee that failure is not repeated.                                     – Hemant C. Lodha

Blaming our fault on our nature does not change nature of our fault.

If you can smile when things go wrong, you have someone in the mind to blame.

Instead of contemplating on others, spend time in self-contemplation and you’ll find yourself.

It is often hard to hearthe tears that we ourselves have caused.

– Maxims of Marcel

Never blame others to protect yourself, for TIME has a way of revealing the TRUTH.                                                                               – Brahma Kumaris

People are not failure until they begin to blame somebody else.

Responsibility is an ability to choose the response. Effective people do not blame circumstances, conditions or other people for the result they got because they take the responsibility for their actions.

To err is human. To blame it on someone else is even more human.

The more you look for defects in others, the more you will become affected. Weakness is contagious.                                                  – Brahma Kumaris

Unsuccessful people blame circumstances, other people or events.

We always feel bad that good thing happen to others but we forget that we are others for someone.

When you blame other’s, you give up your power to change.

– Dr. Robert Anthony

Winners may analyse but never rationalize that is a loser’s game. Lovers always have a book full of excuses to tell why they could not. 

Retiring President

The retiring President of a company after a standard farewell, gave two envelopes marked No.1 and No.2 to the incoming President, and said, “Whenever you run into a management crisis you cannot handle by yourself, open envelope No. 1. At the next crisis, open the second one.”

A few years later, a major crisis came. The President went into the safe and pulled out the first envelope. It said, “Blame it on your predecessor.” A few years later a second crisis came. The President went for the second envelope, and it said, “Prepare two envelopes for your. successor. ”

Moral of the Story :- It is easy to fail by blaming

All blame is a waste of time.

No matter how much fault you find with another,

And regardless of how much you blame others,

It will not change you.

The only thing blame does is to keep the focus off you

when you are looking for external reasons to explain

your unhappiness or frustration.

You may succeed in making them feel guilty about

something by blaming them,

but you won’t succeed in changing whatever

it is about you that are making you unhappy.

– Wayne Dyer